... Has been thrown out the window.

This is me when I was little, out on a family trip. I have this problem where I like everything to be like it was when I was little. I had a great childhood so why not try to replicate it???
Our family would go camping often. A lot of the times we'd share a campsite with many family members either on my dad's side of the family or my mom's side. It was great. Perfect. Even if it rained most of the time - it was always so much fun! Along the way, without realising it, I developed ideas of what camping should be and what kinds of things did not qualify as 'camping'. When I was a kid our family camping trips would go like this : Pile everything we would need into our station wagon, lock the house and go out to the campground which was usually in the woods next to either the bay, ocean or some river. Once at the campground, choose a secluded, family friendly site, park the car and set up. Once set up, we never entered the car again until the camping trip was over and it was time to head home. We didn't leave the campground. We were there to CAMP, not drop our stuff and explore the country. Us kids would make little forts out of the old stumps and trees around our site while the adults would work on fixing up camp food. If we left our camp site it was by foot only and it was to follow a trail down to the water source to fish or look for shells. I have lots of memories of catching bull heads, putting them in a coffee can with water and getting to 'keep' them until we had to let them go before going home. I have lots of memories of wearing my saltwater sandals and trying not to cut my feet on barnacles which were all over the beach. We ALWAYS camped in the deep dark woods and never could we see any other campers that might have also been camping in the same campground. We were very secluded and private. It was family time. Time to sit around the campfire and listen to Dad tell us stories from his boy scouts trips, listen to Uncle David tell us ghost stories or just talk. Roast marshmallows, hot dogs and then go to bed in our tent. Never were any showers taken or expected to be taken. There weren't any showers or bathrooms with lights or flush toilets. Only the fly infested dark outhouse with the deep hole to sit on top of which is why my mom taught me how to completely cover your toilet seat by draping TP across it, covering the hole. I've taught my kids how to do this and I continue to do this at every public restroom I go into to which is why I take so long in there!

This year's camping trip to Iron Creek has to be the closest I've come to my childhood camping trips. Especially since we were sharing a site with my folks ( below with their new trailer ) , my husband's mom, my brother and his girls and had my Uncle David and Aunt Margie in the campsite next to ours and good family friends two sites down! My Uncle Thom and Aunt JoJo were there on Saturday and we used to do a lot of camping with them and my cousins growing up and camping with both Uncle David and Uncle Thom was always so much fun and probably one of the reasons I love camping so much now. Both would find creative and funny ways to entertain us kids. Uncle Thom once put two holes in a stump like an electrical outlet and then when plugging in his ( battery operated ) radio would turn the switch on, then would turn it off when pulling the plug out of the stump outlet. This truly amazed not only us kids but our Japanese Exchange students that were camping with us! We thought he'd found an electrically wired stump in the forest.

We were set and ready as always to use the smelly outhouses again this time but were surprised to find that all new outhouses had been built at Iron Creek! No more flies and they didn't even stink! They had new dry wall and new paint, new everything! The kids liked them so much we kept finding them locked inside singing loudly because of the cool echo and had to shoo them out so others could use them.

Uncle Thom brought out his ice cream machine this time and the girls all sat around watching and waiting.

When it was done we had ice cream and brownies. Yum. Here's the ice cream man - Uncle Thom serving it up.

Some sittin' round the campfire time roasting up some hot dogs for lunch before heading back down to the river to try for some more fish.

This year's gang of kids hanging out at the picnic table while the grownups are slowly packing things up to go home.

Tinsel got to come along on his first ever camping trip. We brought all four of our dogs. They all behaved very well. Tinsel made himself a bed under some ferns.

So, I said at the beginning that I'm throwing my book of camping rules out the window because I've realized that really these rules were just camping 'ideas' formed in my head by the way we camped during my childhood. I was getting frustrated by the fact that we couldn't always camp in the deep dark woods and my husband would sometimes park us in a field ( which was a total camping no - no to me before ) where we can see other campers ( also a no - no. ) Where a burn ban might be on so no campfire ( no fire???? What's the point?? ) He likes to set up camp and then leave the site for the entire day - by car ( also a huge no no ) and drive around exploring or hunting. I like to hang out at the campsite, fixing up camp food, keeping things tidy, reading, talking to the kids, playing in the trees with the kids, going on hikes and walks all within the campground. Lock the car and leave it. No going back home, if you've forgotten an item - deal with it and try to remember it next time - no running off to the store. Hey, my parents went hiking and camping for their honey moon, brought canned food to eat and forgot the can opener. Did they go back home??? No. They just dealt with it and caught fish instead. You're camping - not staying at a resort. It's time to rough it! That for me is the whole fun! No pressure to get clean, pack up to drive anywhere, wait for anyone to return, flush toilets etc... Well, I realized this was just one of those things that fell under the category of " It's not bad, it's not good, it's just different." And I need to get my panties out of bunch about it. According to Sunset Magazine, I'm classified as a " Solitude Seeker" when it comes to camping and that's fine but I need to be able to incorporate the ways my husband wants to camp without being so rigid with my camping rules. I will say, it was fun to re live it all last week though and share my memories with our kids and hopefully help them learn fun ways to camp as they grow up. ( With out a 'rule book.' )

( Chelan making herself comfortable for the ride home. )